I don't care what they say. Ya gotta have the proper mood. Mood says it all: a little soft lighting with candles, romantic music playing in the background, and incense filling the air. A definite signal to start with the lovemaking, si? You bet you ball sacks, dudes. Pipedream Products includes in this nice little package 12 incense sticks (four different, sensuous scents each) and an incense burner. Light one up, place in the holder,and that's it.
So take a hint from a hopeless romantic. That's all you need. (That, and a nice bottle of cabernet to start with would be nice, too!)