LONDON, UK—British adult starlet and popular cam performer Harriet Sugarcookie addresses the issue of adult virginity in the most delicate way on her lifestyle website HarrietSugarcookie.com.
In her blog post "How Do I Deal with My Anxiety as a Virgin in My 20s?", Sugarcookie addresses a fan's e-mail query with solid advice backed by an online survey of 500 men of varying ages and backgrounds.
"The results show that there is nothing unusual at all about being a virgin in your twenties," writes Sugarcookie in the article, noting that 22% of men over the age of 18 are virgins and 38% have had experience with just 1-3 partners.
With limited experience comes anxiety. "You feel like you're starting from zero when everyone else has had years of practice," which she said can lead to a fear of intimacy. "No one likes the idea of rejection… you'll need to put yourself out there and let someone in eventually." Sugarcookie's survey results bear that out, concluding that "nearly every guy will lose his virginity by his thirties."
Bottom line? Sugarcookie advises to "Go at your own pace… get to know someone, become attracted to them… take things slow because you're learning and it's an experience," adding, "If you think you messed up, well, there's always next time. And the time after that."
HarrietSugarcookie.com is a mix of the teen performer's specific interests, with articles about pop culture, sex, sci-fi/fantasy films, fashion, advice, food and entertainment alongside homemade amateur porn video clips and free cam shows. Think of it as a unique lifestyle site for men.
