Lovense, Sexologist Introduce New Approach to Edging
LOS ANGELES—AASECT-certified sex and relationship therapist Dr. Amanda Pasciucco has introduced a structured, science-based approach to “edging," using a 1–10 arousal scale and the hands-free design of the Lovense Gush 2 Motion.
Edging is a sexual technique that involves bringing arousal close to orgasm, easing off before climax, and repeating the process. It can help men become more aware of their body's signals and learn to manage arousal with greater control. For some, edging may also intensify orgasms and create more opportunities for sexual exploration. Although edging may help some men develop greater control or reduce performance pressure, it should not be considered a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment.
One of the biggest challenges for men practicing edging is identifying where they are on the arousal scale. Many men only notice two states: “not close yet” and “oh damn, I’m about to finish.” To make the practice clearer and more effective, Pasciucco proposes a simple 1–10 arousal scale to assess the level of arousal more directly and consistently.
Here’s how to identify the subtle changes in the body:
1–2: Almost no sexual arousal. 3–5: Clear arousal is present. Blood flow is increasing, yet there’s little urgency. 6: Solidly turned on. Pleasure is obvious and building. The person can keep going or stop without much struggle. 7: The key training number. Strong, present arousal. The person can feel the climb clearly. Pre-ejaculate may appear. There’s a noticeable urge to push for more, yet there is still room to choose. This is the edge most men need to learn how to hang out near. 8: The point of no return is getting close. The urge is intense. Staying here more than a few seconds takes real skill. 9: Point of no return is imminent or already crossed for many men. 10: Orgasm is happening.
At the start of practice, avoid moving too quickly or using too much intensity, and do not focus only on the orgasm. The most useful range is often around level 7, where arousal is strong but still controllable.
The arousal scale provides a useful framework, but it only becomes meaningful through practice. The experience of each level varies from person to person.
Get a suitable toy as the training tool. For beginners, it can be difficult to control the pace, rhythm, and intensity of the practice, so a suitable training toy can be helpful. When selecting the tool, one important criterion is whether it helps keep the attention focused on physical sensations. One example is penis vibrator Gush 2 Motion from Lovense as recommended by Pasciucco. Proper preparation includes charging the toy and using some water-based lube.
Find a cozy, private space. Create a comfortable, relaxing environment to get into the right state.
Start at the lowest intensity to warm up. The first few minutes are just for calibration on the scale. Be patient and go with the lowest intensity set by the tool. Remember that the goal is to practice edging rather than rush toward immediate gratification.
Pay attention to how arousal changes as stimulation builds. The biggest challenge is to notice the arousal levels on the scale. Changes in areas such as the glans, frenulum, thighs, and even the pelvic floor can be important indicators. Rate the arousal honestly until it reaches a solid 7. Then, the aim is to remain near that level for roughly 20–60 seconds while keeping the breathing steady, and the body relaxed and focused on enjoyment.
Track progress over time to make the practice more measurable, take note of the intensity setting, the duration around level 7, and how quickly the arousal rises or falls. Comparing these details across sessions over time can help to track progress.
Gush 2 Motion is designed for hands-free edging practice. Its stretch-to-fit silicone wings accommodate a wide range of sizes, while the adjustable tension band helps keep the toy securely in place. This design can also reduce distractions and help you keep track of where you are on the arousal scale. When your hands are actively involved, it can be easy to lose focus on your body’s signals and move too quickly through the process.
Compared to the previous version, Gush 2 Motion has upgraded a targeted oscillating pad. With strong vibrations, the product is designed to dynamically combine different types of stimulation in one experience. When practicing with Gush 2 Motion, position the oscillating pad just below the head of the penis, where the stimulation feels pleasurable but not overwhelming.
The all-in-one Lovense ecosystem is what gives Gush 2 Motion a lasting competitive edge. The app allows to control the toy precisely and adjust the intensity on demand, making it easier to target and maintain a specific level on the arousal scale.
For those who find it difficult to identify their current arousal level, there are proven patterns set by experienced users and experts, including Pasciucco. Gush 2 Motion can also pair with the partner’s Lovense toys, building edging into a more interactive two-person experience.