CYBERSPACE—The sixth episode of "CallThemMommy"—the official Kiiroo podcast hosted by Kylie Marco and Ashton Egner and produced by Sirak Tegegn—featured an open conversation about intimacy, connection, and what it means to explore pleasure in 2025.
In the episode titled "Redefining The Rules," performer and future sexologist Alec Hardy joined the hosts for a deep dive into relationship dynamics, kink, and the art of communication. This episode is now streaming on the KiirooTV YouTube channel and Spotify.
Hardy, who calls himself a "toy connoisseur," has built a reputation as a performer and educator bridging the gap between pleasure and psychology. Currently training to become a certified sexologist, he shared how understanding the emotional and physical layers of intimacy helps people form healthier connections. From tools of pleasure and pain to high-tech innovation, Hardy’s insights highlight the balance between control, consent, and curiosity that defines modern intimacy.
The episode also explored how younger generations are breaking away from traditional relationship rules. Hardy spoke openly about relationship anarchy and why personalized definitions of commitment are replacing old-school expectations.
Said Hardy, "Everyone’s different. It’s about finding what actually works for you and your partner. No structure fits everyone."
That point leads to one of the most important discussions of the episode: the ongoing double standards around sexual expression, particularly for men. Hardy and the hosts unpacked how conversations about identity and desire still carry stigma, especially when they challenge traditional gender expectations.
Hardy's experience in fetish and BDSM spaces brought a grounded perspective on consent culture. He explained that real consent is not only verbal but also energetic and ongoing.
Hardy added, "Being able to say no, or recognize a boundary in the moment, that’s a skill. It’s awareness. It’s communication in real time."
The trio explored how scenes built on mutual trust and shared energy create deeper intimacy, not just better sex.
The conversation turned to the next frontier of intimacy technology. In October 2025, Kiiroo expanded its FeelStar lineup with FeelArgenta, the company’s first FeelStar created with AI. FeelArgenta marks a major step forward in the evolution of connected pleasure devices.
Hardy noted during the episode, "innovation like this isn’t about replacing connection but enhancing it."
