MONTREAL—Squirt.org has released its latest edition of Squirt Unloaded, a data study of more than 100,000 points revealing gay and bi men’s fantasies.
“This year’s dataset reveals a market that’s becoming more sophisticated and more expressive,” said Mitchell Cheeseman, senior manager of brand & marketing communications at Squirt.org.
“From the surge in group play to the renewed dominance of oral as a top fantasy, gay and bi men are gravitating toward experiences that blend intensity with intimacy. These insights offer a meaningful advantage—a deeper understanding of what audiences will seek out, purchase, and engage with in the year ahead.”
A few trends to keep an eye on:
• Cities worldwide showed sharply defined sexual identities, including:
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Sydney is the global city with the most Tops
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Los Angeles is the city with the most Bottoms
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New York City as the world’s Vers capital
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Chicago is the #1 cruising city in the U.S.
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Toronto leads cruising activity in Canada.
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Spain ranks as the #1 cruising country overall.
Other data points include the following:
• Daddy dominance continues—Daddies are the #1 “type” globally, outperforming bears, twinks, muscle bros, and even the fast-rising “gaymers.”
• Group play is officially the most popular kink of 2025, overtaking BDSM, roleplay, leather, and exhibitionism.
• Oral reclaimed #1 as the world’s favorite form of foreplay, with rimming and massage climbing.
• Bareback, orgy, and dom/sub are the top-watched porn categories, beating out amateur and public.
• Lady Gaga reigns supreme as gay men’s favorite musical artist.
• Mondays are the busiest cruising day worldwide (and by a wide margin).


