Squirt.org Reveals Gay Men's Favorite Fantasies of 2025

MONTREAL—Squirt.org has released its latest edition of Squirt Unloaded, a data study of more than 100,000 points revealing gay and bi men’s fantasies.

“This year’s dataset reveals a market that’s becoming more sophisticated and more expressive,” said Mitchell Cheeseman, senior manager of brand & marketing communications at Squirt.org.

“From the surge in group play to the renewed dominance of oral as a top fantasy, gay and bi men are gravitating toward experiences that blend intensity with intimacy. These insights offer a meaningful advantage—a deeper understanding of what audiences will seek out, purchase, and engage with in the year ahead.”

A few trends to keep an eye on:

 • Cities worldwide showed sharply defined sexual identities, including:

  • Sydney is the global city with the most Tops

  • Los Angeles is the city with the most Bottoms

  • New York City as the world’s Vers capital

  • Chicago is the #1 cruising city in the U.S.

  • Toronto leads cruising activity in Canada.

  • Spain ranks as the #1 cruising country overall.

Other data points include the following:

• Daddy dominance continues—Daddies are the #1 “type” globally, outperforming bears, twinks, muscle bros, and even the fast-rising “gaymers.”

• Group play is officially the most popular kink of 2025, overtaking BDSM, roleplay, leather, and exhibitionism.

• Oral reclaimed #1 as the world’s favorite form of foreplay, with rimming and massage climbing.

• Bareback, orgy, and dom/sub are the top-watched porn categories, beating out amateur and public.

 • Lady Gaga reigns supreme as gay men’s favorite musical artist.

• Mondays are the busiest cruising day worldwide (and by a wide margin).