LOS ANGELES—Intimacy coach Alex Ray says he can help studios improve intimacy and chemistry on camera.
"Viewers can tell the difference between a video where models are simply ‘performing’ and one where real chemistry is present," said Ray, a certified intimacy coach with experience in the adult entertainment industry. "AI can simulate a lot, but it cannot recreate true human connection. It cannot replicate the chemistry that comes from two people who are genuinely connected."
Ray explained that as an intimacy coach, he can facilitate the connection between performers by guiding them through a pre-shoot process that includes a 15 to 30-minute session focused on exploring boundaries, turn-ons, and the flow of the upcoming scene.
“When models meet for the first time just minutes before shooting, it’s challenging for them to feel genuinely comfortable or connected. My role is to bridge that gap and allow real chemistry to develop—something that AI simply cannot reproduce,” he explained.
Ray said studios would benefit from an intimacy coach by improving their performers' on-camera work while increasing overall efficiency on set as well as reducing the studio's liability.
Other potential benefits include:
• Enhanced model well-being and mental health: Intimacy coaching prioritizes performer well-being by opening a safe space for communication. By setting clear boundaries and promoting mutual respect, intimacy coaches help create a safe environment where models feel seen and valued.
• Improved efficiency and production speed: This pre-shoot preparation often results in fewer retakes, a smoother production process, and significant time savings.
• Reduced legal and ethical risks: Clear, documented discussions around boundaries and consent reduce the potential for misunderstandings, liability issues, and reputational risks for the studio.
“I recently coached for a shoot with HIMEROS and Davey Wavey, and the impact was clear,” Ray said. “The on-screen chemistry was unparalleled, and the production process was more efficient because models felt prepared and understood. Intimacy coaching not only made the final product better, but it also made production more effective and safer for everyone involved.”
For inquiries about intimacy coaching services, including on-site and virtual options, contact Ray at [email protected].
