I started in the industry about 10 years ago when I was about 26 years old. I began by doing live spanking sessions at a dominance house here in NY. After doing sessions for about 5 years. I was asked by numerous clients for videotaped copies of the sessions. This is how I began thinking about making videos. I ended up working with a Miss Janus Rainer (known by AVN as the Queen of Bondage) a woman who had been in the business for 26 years and had a successful fetish video business. After working with her for about 2 years I went on my own & with the help of my girlfriend and boyfriend I started The Kelly Payne Collection.

I knew I had a thing for spanking since I was a kid. At that time I did not know it was related sexually but knew it intrigued me. It was always a part of my personal life even if I did not get to spank anyone until I was in my twenties.

If you weren't in the adult industry, I would probably be a fashion designer or working in the fashion industry. I graduated from FIT with an associates in buying and merchandising and a Bachelors in fashion design. I grew up working in my dad's deli and liquor store business started working with him when I was 10 years old. So if I wasn't in the adult industry I would either be in the fashion industry or working for my Dad.

Best thing I have learned is to persevere and be persistent. The best advice I can give to anyone is something my Mom told me a long time ago "do something you love, do something you really love if you never want to work another day in your life."

Best advice from the industry? not sure how much great advice I got from the industry but I did learn from the industry to believe in your work and do not let anyone change your perspective. Believe in yourself and your product. What I also learned is that in this industry it is not always about having great material. Connections and bottom line seem to take precedence.

I think the biggest misconception is that we are really hurting the submissive person in the scene.They do not understand that the way they think about breast or pussy or cock or whatever it is to get them off, this is what BDSM does for people in the scene it gets them off. So the pain you think you see being inflicted on film or in real life scenes really feels good to the sub and satisfying. Also for many when something is brought to their attention that they do not understand it is intimidating. They do not see that it is all done with good intentions and for sexual gratification. One other BIG misconception is that BDSM people or fetishist are pedophiles and are confused about their sexuality when in fact I have found the total opposite to be true they are not pedophiles and they are very comfortable in their sexuality, many come to accept their fetish and actually try to understand it more than others..

My best piece of sex advice for women; whatever you do, do not fake it. You are only denying and fooling yourself. Learn what gets you off, learn how to get yourself off and when you are with your partner be honest about what you like and what you don't. Communication, don't deny yourself the wonderful pleasures sex can bring you. Oh one other thing when you are in bed with someone do not start thinking about what you look like, your weight pleasing their every whim, just relax and be open to any thought that comes into your mind that turns you on. You will know because your pussy will start to tingle. Just go with it and don't be ashamed or self conscious. No one else knows what is going on in your mind.