Kinda a novice experiment this one is, but that's okay because everyone has to start somewhere. Each strap, made of a black leather with Velcro closures, has a large loop with a smaller one attached. The large loop goes around the thigh, and the smaller around the wrist. Although the fit is comfortable, a man or woman of average strength could break free of the restraint if they chose to. This may dampen the illusion of having total control over your partner, but if you just pretend, you'll be okay.