Maybe you want to say no to your lover, but just don't want to say the word. Or perhaps you are looking for another way to say yes. Here's an idea: A blow-up pillow with "Yes" on one side, "No" on the other. Honey comes to bed, just flash the pillow. No means no, yes means yes. Or mix it up! Mundane questions like, "Baby, you want some coffee?" actually become fun when you can just flash the pillow at your partner. Just remember, when you're flashing "Yes," the "No" side will be facing you. Can be confusing first thing in the morning.