This feature appears in the May issue of AVN magazine.
LOS ANGELES—Jessi Rae cherishes the opportunity to share her truth about the hotwife lifestyle on a high-profile platform.
The popular content creator made her mainstream adult debut on Vixen Media Group’s splashy new site, WIFEY, in March—and what made the moment even sweeter was she got to enjoy it with her husband Matt by her side.
In a rare first in the adult entertainment space, WIFEY sets out to present an intimate look at ethical non-monogamy (ENM) in a documentary style driven by interviews with real-life couples such as Jessi and Matt and some of the world’s most sought-after male performers.
ENM is a growing practice where individuals engage in multiple romantic or sexual relationships with the consent and understanding of all parties involved.
WIFEY’s spotlight on the couple culminates with a sex scene featuring the hotwife and the professional stud—in Jessi’s case, VMG contract star Jason Luv did the honors.
“When we first heard about the project, I immediately thought it was such a brilliant concept,” Rae tells AVN. “What I love most about the site is that it gives people a platform to share their voices and tell their own stories.
“The lifestyle is so diverse with each couple bringing their own unique interests, so the content feels truly endless. I believe this is a groundbreaking initiative that will evolve into one of the most important platforms for exploring human desires.”
Jessi adds, “It might sound bold, but it really offers viewers the opportunity to question themselves and explore their own fantasies in a thoughtful and empowering way.”
Vixen Media Group’s move to illuminate the hotwifing genre on a grand scale has also become part of a national conversation.
In April, the brand received a prominent mention on ABC’s long-running daytime talk show The View in a segment titled “How Is ‘Hotwifing’ Trend Saving Marriages?”
Rae tells AVN that she and Matt first began exploring the hotwifing lifestyle about six months into their relationship, which started in 2015.
“At the time, we were living on opposite coasts and both had demanding full-time jobs, which made it challenging to see each other as frequently as we would have liked,” Jessi says. “Given that we both have high libidos, we recognized that it was important to find ways to meet each other’s needs.”
They deepened their connection through frequent FaceTime calls, watching adult content together and having candid discussions about their desires. As their dialogue progressed, they began embracing the idea of having fun with others, Jessi explains.
“We took time to establish clear boundaries and openly discussed what each of us would need in order to feel comfortable and included,” she continues. “Once we were aligned, we decided to take the plunge—and the experience was incredibly rewarding, bringing us even closer.”
It was not long after Jessi and Matt started exchanging naughty pictures that Jessi realized she enjoyed showing off. They started posting faceless content on Tumblr in 2016 but when they changed their policies, Jessi and Matt moved to a different platform where they built a huge following.
“It was there that a ton of people started encouraging us to show more and make videos and charge for them,” Jessi recalls. “That’s when we decided to create our OnlyFans in 2019, and since then things have really taken off in ways we never imagined.”
She says Jason Luv’s reputation precedes him and he did not disappoint in their glamorous encounter.
“Jason Luv is definitely a well-known name in the industry, so I was very familiar with who he was and what he brings to the table,” Jessi tells AVN. “I was excited for the opportunity to work with such a respected talent and grateful for the chance to take on a new challenge. I’ve always preferred things on the larger side, so Jason was definitely the perfect person for Matt to see me with.
“Having Matt involved in the experience made it even more exciting, as we were able to share the moment together, and I truly enjoyed every aspect of it.”
Matt agrees.
“I really liked being able to be there for Jessi’s first pro scene,” Matt tells AVN. “We started this open lifestyle together so being able to watch us grow to this level in a professional manner was really exhilarating. Working with Vixen and Jason on WIFEY.com made the experience even better.”
Matt continues, “Jason Luv was great. He is very professional and funny. He made the scene extremely comfortable almost as if it wasn’t even work. [Director] Derek Dozer was awesome. He’s the type of person that you feel like you’ve been friends with for a lifetime. Hope to work with him again soon.”
AVN Award-winning performer Jason Luv tells AVN his experiences with hotwifing prior to WIFEY gave him an existing knowledge of the dynamics and boundaries of the practice.
“It has always been a pleasure for me to fill a sexual void for couples or allow them to experience uninhibited opportunities,” Luv says.
“I love that societal norms are being shattered, and people are able to fulfill their true wishes and desires through WIFEY.com. I am happy to be leading in the forefront of such groundbreaking, exciting experiences.”
The former mainstream fashion and fitness model, who served seven years in the Marine Corps and won the 2019 AVN Best Male Newcomer award, says he loved working with Jessi and Matt.
“It felt as though they were genuine throughout the scene’s entirety, nothing felt scripted,” Luv adds. “Apart from the fact Jessi is a beautiful woman, her husband was calm, collected and thriving in the moment. Sheer cup of pleasure.”
Vixen Media Group exclusive Serenity Cox, a former ER nurse from Toronto, parlayed her hotwifing lifestyle into a flourishing porn career.
Cox and her husband began experimenting with the lifestyle during the pandemic and it soon led them to sharing their homemade videos on FetLife and then Pornhub, where they became a sensation.
Then last May—less than three years after they began posting content—Serenity landed an exclusive performance contract with VMG.
When she first heard about WIFEY, Cox knew she wanted to be part of it.
“The hotwife lifestyle is what brought me into adult content creation, so having the opportunity to tell my real story alongside my real life husband in a professional setting with a company like Vixen… this felt like a full-circle moment,” Serenity tells AVN. “It bridged the gap between my independent adult content creation and professional shoots.”
She reveals that Mr. Cox has been her biggest supporter throughout her foray into professional adult performing, so bringing him closer to what she’s doing when she comes to Porn Valley has been extra special.
“My husband is involved in every aspect of my independent adult content creation, but until now he had never seen first hand what happens during my professional shoots with Vixen,” Serenity continues. “It was amazing to have an opportunity to show him how a day of filming goes, introduce him to the crew and key members of the Vixen team, and share the experience with him in a way that reflects our own lifestyle.”
Serenity performed with VMG exclusive Dan Damage and 2024 AVN Best Male Newcomer Hollywood Cash for WIFEY, while Mr. Cox watched.
“It was really nice to be paired with two guys I’ve shot with before,” Serenity says. “Both Dan and Hollywood are very laid back and easy to get along with, obviously both extremely sexy and skilled partners.
“Having partners I’m familiar with made the scene even more fun and added a sense of comfort and ease for both myself and my husband. I’ve said before, knowing my husband is there watching and enjoying adds another level of excitement and arousal for me.”
The Atlanta native Damage, who shot his first scene for VMG in 2022, tells AVN he has done some hotwifing-themed scenes before in his career, but WIFEY has lifted the genre to a different level.
“What stands out about this site is the level of trust, communication and intention involved—something you don’t always get on more ‘performative’ websites,” Damage says. “It’s more grounded, more real. And when it’s ethical and all parties are aligned, it’s honestly no different than going to the grocery store or getting married—just another dimension of human connection.”
Damage has been a key player in the WIFEY rollout, appearing in multiple scenes including outings with Sadie Rose, Savvy Suxx and Cox.
“Every scene I shot for WIFEY with Sadie, Serenity, and Savvy was rooted in real trust and respect,” Dan adds. “The energy on set was always grounded, not just between us performers but also with their partners.What stood out most to me was how present everyone was—there’s a lot of love in these relationships.
“You’re stepping into a space that already has deep meaning. It’s not about domination or performance—it’s about collaboration, expression and trust.”
Adult industry newcomer LorReign made an immediate impact for WIFEY, which also was her pro debut.
The former Colorado sheriff’s deputy appreciated the chance to share her hotwife journey with fans around the world along with her husband of 12 years, Anthony. She took on veteran star Jax Slayher for WIFEY.
“Prior to our scene with Jax, I had seen him on a few videos on X, but I wasn’t very familiar with his work,” LorReign admits. “We explored Jax more when we discovered that he was our male talent and I was very impressed with his work.
“I liked his style and of course, once I learned that we would be shooting an anal scene I had to know more about what he was ‘bringing’ to the scene! I was highly impressed, to say the least, but I was also very nervous and I felt a bit anxious because Jax was by far the largest I would have had the honor of having in my backdoor.”
She adds, “I was excited for the challenge, and it turned out to be one of my most favorite sexual experiences overall, all the while Anthony was there with me.”
LorReign wasn’t kidding—she even squirted.
“I was completely surprised with my squirt during the scene,” she confesses. “I can sometimes feel the buildup and I know that I am going to squirt a little, but between the anticipation, the feeling and having Anthony with me on set, I think that is what caused the huge explosion that I never anticipated.
“I was shocked when I orgasmed from anal and squirted with no vaginal penetration. It was such a comfortable set and experience that I fully enjoyed every moment, allowing me to squirt and orgasm multiple times, unexpectedly.”
LorReign tells AVN she started her career in law enforcement in 2003 with a large agency in Colorado; she worked in many different areas as a deputy sheriff, training officer and training coordinator for 21 years before resigning in December of 2024.
“I enjoyed my career with the agency and I have the utmost respect for law enforcement and first responders everywhere,” she says.
LorReign explains that she and Anthony were partners and best friends for years before they actually got together as a couple.
“Once we were together, it was an easy transition to discuss what we were curious about sexually and we began exploring the shared partner and swinger lifestyle together, fairly early on in our relationship,” LorReign continues. “We have been in the lifestyle for nearly 15 years. I began traveling regularly for work and that is essentially how our hotwife lifestyle developed into a more frequent, much anticipated, exciting aspect of our partner sharing relationship.
“I would find a partner and I would call Anthony so he could listen in, or at times he would watch while I had a fun sexcapade with my bull. It was a huge turn-on for us both. It opened our lines of communication about our fantasies and desires and ultimately our lifestyle choice has strengthened our relationship greatly. We have no secrets and there is no jealousy or deception between us, we simply enjoy all aspects of our time together.”
Prior to September of 2024, all the content they made was for their personal use as they kept their lifestyle discreet. But that month they began their adult content journey when LorReign filmed her first adult video. A month later, VMG reached out.
“And we were ecstatic to be considered for and included in such an amazing opportunity to shed some light on the hotwife, shared-partner, lifestyle together on the same set,” LorReign says.
Without question, the vision of WIFEY resonates with all involved. Dan Damage summarized the spirit of the venture with a humble perspective.
“It means a lot to be part of something that helps people explore themselves and their relationships with honesty,” Damage says. “Ethical non-monogamy isn’t about being wild or chaotic—it’s about structure, safety and communication.
“And if my role helps a couple feel seen, inspired or even just validated in their journey, that’s a privilege. We’re all human. We’re all seeking connection. And if it’s ethical and intentional, it belongs in the same conversation as any other life decision—getting married, buying a home, or choosing to live honestly.
“At the end of the day, connection—when rooted in consent—is sacred. That’s what WIFEY represents to me.”
Photography courtesy of Vixen Media Group
