The chicks are in charge throughout Fucked Up Handjobs. They don't stroke off these guys to get them off, they stroke them off as part of a torturous ritual of verbal and physical humiliation — making Fucked Up Handjobs so fucked up.
Daisy Marie slaps around a dude wearing a ball gag while she jerks him off and squeezes his nutsack. Other girls simply have a general disrespect for the guys they're stroking. This isn't quite a fem-dom release, but it's close.