LAS VEGAS—Mistress Mia Darque joined hosts Mandii B and Weezy in Sin City for their AVN Adult Entertainment Expo edition of "Whoreible Decisions" video podcast. The trio discussed the convention, along with DomCon, BDSM, stereotypes in Femdom, dating as a Dominatrix, feminization, limits, and more.
"Guess what!? There is an in-between. Sometimes I feel like a nut. Sometimes I don't. You can switch," Mistress Mia Darque advised, as Weezy asked if it was ok to sub sometimes and Domme other times in her personal love life.
Darque indicated that it was ok and normal to do. She added, "If you went into the relationship and were like, 'I want to play sometimes, and you get to be the top, and sometimes, I get to be the top, then sometimes you get to be the bottom, and sometimes, I get to be the bottom.' That is a switch relationship."
Darque, the Oklahoma Amazon, is a dominatrix with over 20 years of experience in the BDSM lifestyle and service to the community. She is an educator at Sanctuary Studios in Los Angeles, serves on the board for DomCon, and performs at kinky events across the country.
During the interview, Darque introduced Mandii B and Weezy to the Perfect 10, a three-foot-long paddle wielded at Mistress Cyan's The Lair at the AVN side of AEE in Las Vegas.
Darque observed as Weezy held the Perfect 10. She grabbed the paddle, held the handle like a baseball bat, and slung it onto her shoulder. Darque said, "You have a yard, and almost 33 pounds of wood, just sitting on your lap, and look at how you're touching it. Are you gonna get on this floor or am I gonna have to put you on it?..."
Mandii B interrupted, "For the public. How would a woman, who's mostly sub… how would anyone that's normally a submissive, start inching their way toward domination?"
Darque suggested, "Brat. Brat it the fuck up. Brat is what I like to think of as the switch code for switches. Like 'I'm done being baby now. You go get it!...' It's a little bit of pushback. Baby steps."
This "WHOREible Decisions" episode is available now on Soundcloud and Apple Podcasts. Get additional access and perks by signing up on Patreon at patreon.com/whoreibledecisions. Watch the entire interview here.
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