NEW YORK—The Chocolate Domme, aka Mistress Marley, takes to her official YouTube channel to set the record straight about the mistaken assumptions and outright lies surrounding her chosen profession in her newest video, "The Misconceptions of Financial Domination."
“A lot of people don’t know what findom is, what it entails, there’s a lot of ignorance around it," she says. "Some people are like 'findom is fake'—it’s definitely not fake, I’m a living testament to that!”
The topics Marley covers in the video include:
Misconception #1 — Taking clients’ money without their permission. “I don’t see how that could happen, seeing that the subs physically have to go on their money apps and send to us ... it’s definitely very consensual; we’re making grown men send us money against their will? That’s not true at all.”
Misconception #2 — Findommes must send nude photos/content to their benefactors. “Most fin subs they don’t expect a session, they don’t expect nudity, they don’t even expect you to give them all your time. You might do a Skype session, you might do some humiliation online, you might do some type of domination ... but that gets into Femdom ... you’re getting more into the physicality of the kinks.”
Misconception #3 — All tributes (personal payments) must be large amounts of money. “A tribute can be as small as five dollars, as large as five thousand dollars ... it depends on who sees you, who likes your content, who wants to send a large amount of money to you and who can give what they can give.”
Misconception #4 — Findommes have to look a certain way to be successful. “This misconception can be debunked by going on Twitter ... you will see so many different types of dommes—different races, different orientations, different sizes ... you create your content, you find your niche, you stick to what you’re doing.
“You never know what people like ... beauty is in the eye of the beholder ... so many people are into so many different things, especially the BDSM world ... it’s so diverse and so inclusive—that’s really why I love this world," Marley concluded. "You can be any type of person ... it’s how you work your angles ... what you’re into and what makes you YOU, what makes you unique. I know that sounds corny, but it’s very much so true."
To watch the video in full, visit Mistress Marley’s YouTube channel.
