CYBERSPACE—The folks over at Ethical.porn are spreading the word on a timely blog post by adult performer Ava Mir-Ausziehen on the subject of “Critical Consent: The Tricky Task of Saying Yes.”
The idea of sexual non-consent via a verbal “no” is familiar, and affirmative consent via voluntary agreement is steadily working its way into social consciousness. In her essay, Mir-Ausziehen takes the discussion beyond “yes” and “no.”
“Consent is far more complex than we typically make it out to be,” Mir-Ausziehen writes. “It’s more than simply agreeing or disagreeing to do something. So alongside laying down best practices and accountability procedures, part of the work we need to do collectively is to rethink what exactly consent is.”
Mir-Ausziehen discusses how the already “murky nature” of occupational consent becomes even more tricky when occupational labor is sexual in nature.
“If, in our work, we consensually engage in a sexual activity that we don’t necessarily enjoy, it’s seen as more problematic than if we engage in other kinds of less desirable activities for the sake of work,” she writes. “Sexual activity is seen as somehow inherently personal and vulnerable and is believed to instantly demean and compromise the individual once it waivers from some fantasy of ‘authenticity.’”
Mir-Ausziehen concludes with several points regarding ways of analyzing consent that are rooted in BDSM cultural and practice.
“Ideas about consent are complex and multifaceted, which Ava explores quite well in her essay,” said Ethical.porn founder and Sssh.com director-producer Angie Rowntree. “We are very pleased to share this thought-provoking piece.”
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