LOS ANGELES—Mariah Freya, founder of the pleasure-based sex education site Beducated.com, is featured in a new Cosmopolitan article, "Here’s What Intentional Dating Can Do for Your Love Life."
In the article written by Sophie Saint Thomas, Freya shared her expertise on the concept of intentional dating, offering valuable advice on how to navigate the complexities of modern relationships with purpose and clarity.
Explained Freya, "Intentional dating is a remedy for the superficiality of modern dating. Instead of endless swiping, ghosting, and small talk, it emphasizes quality over quantity and depth over the surface and focuses on meaningful connections with a clear vision of what you want. Why? Because knowing your goals and communicating them up front can significantly enhance your dating experience."
Freya also clarified the term "hard balling," which Freya said, "Means making your romantic intentions clear from the start, sometimes even before the first date. This might include discussing how many dates before intimacy, long-term intentions, or partner preferences. While it might seem extreme, it can be a healthy way to communicate your goals. You don’t need to mention marriage and babies on the first date but can express that you’re looking for something serious."
She also advised, "Intentional dating is about the journey as much as the destination. Embrace the process as an opportunity for personal growth and self-discovery. Each step builds toward not just finding love but also enriching your relationship with yourself, share your goals, visions, and dreams. This approach naturally filters out those only interested in casual hookups."
While maintaining personal privacy is important, Freya said she firmly believes in being "Honest about your intentions, whether you’re looking for a serious relationship, casual dating, or something else. Otherwise, there’s simply no point."
Read the Cosmopolitan article, "Here’s What Intentional Dating Can Do for Your Love Life," at Cosmopolitan.com.
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