Been musing on this burning question the past couple of days after having to confess to an inamorata outside the industry exactly what kind of filmmaking it is that I do. A sticky moment followed, though tellingly it wasn’t because of the assumed sexual licentiousness involved, nor even the recording of said acts for posterity. "My boyfriends and I have messed around with taping ourselves since I was a teenager," my object of adoration averred, "Porn’s no big deal."