Adult Friend Finder Debuts Monique Alexander Advice Column

LOS ANGELES – Vivid Girl Monique Alexander is the 2008 sex advice columnist for the popular adult social networking site Adult Friend Finder, succeeding fellow contract girl Savanna Samson. 

Posted in the magazine section of, Monique's first column responds to a husband's question about how to convince his wife to wear a collar as a symbol of the couple's BDSM lifestyle. 

"I know as a woman I hate it when my partner tries to pressure me into something that I'm not ready for.  I automatically shut down and don't want to do it at all," writes Monique. "You should make it seem more like a fantasy of yours.  Make it like you want to role-play [...] The bottom line is, the more you push it, the less chance you're going to have of making it happen, so give her a chance to digest it and hopefully your fantasy of her wearing a collar will become her fantasy as well." 

Monique's notable credits include Vivid's best-seller Debbie Does Dallas...Again and the seven-part Showtime reality series about the making of the film. She is also an on-air sports commentator with the National Lampoon Radio Network's "The Phil" Show" on XM satellite radio.