Just sample a few random queries (such as "What sounds do you like to hear while making love?" or "Are you in the mood for a little light bondage?" or "Will you help me recreate one of our early (erotic) encounters?"). Two things become crystal clear: 1. It sounds pretty dumb out of context, and 2. This kind of touchy-feely text is designed for women. Right on both counts.

However, when properly introduced into lovemaking, the book takes on another life (and function). We recommend it for both longstanding hetero, gay couples who may be a little on the conservative side and require a jump-start in the bedroom.